The Tapping Slim Down: Nurturing

Babies cry for all kinds of reasons – they have a stomach ache, they are itching somewhere, they are hungry or they might be scared. But once a baby’s stomach is suitably full, she calms down and may even doze off.

Pacifying a cranky infant with a bottle of warm milk makes quick work of calming her down. But it may actually create an ingrained response in her to turn to food in times of anxiety or stress when she grows up. You were a baby once.

As you grew a little older, you might have been rewarded with candy for being a good kid. As you grew older yet, it felt thrilling to experiment with impulsive behavior. What was once play has now become second nature.

I want to emphasize that self-destructive behavior does not mean simply overeating or skipping exercise. Self-destruction happens in a big way when we internalize negative emotions, stowing them away like baggage in an airplane loft. These pent up emotions make themselves known in various forms – disease, excess weight, acne, irritability and what not.

This lesson goes beyond being a weight loss tapping script. It aims to go to the root of where your unfulfilled need for nurturing lies. This need for nurturing and safety creates attachment to self-destructive behavior – emotional eating, skipping workouts and storing up all kinds of harmful emotions inside the body.

Tap along to it anytime you feel like you can’t handle the pressures of the world or need to break away from everything. As you continue to use this script, its message will sink in and you will no longer feel the need to indulge in unhealthy behavior. Then you will no longer need this script either.

EFT tapping round 1

Eyebrow    What if I am hungry for love?

Side of the eye    What if I am hungry for safety?

Under the eye    A part of me still longs for the comfort

Under the nose    of a snugly cuddle and warm milk.

Chin    And all cares would slide right off of me.

Collar bone    Ah, how easy it was to slip into deep sleep

Under the arm    with a full stomach and no worries!

Top of the head    But now, I am angry, I am lonely, I’m scared and hungry.

EFT tapping round 2

Eyebrow    Why doesn’t anyone see I want to feel safe and loved?

Side of the eye    I long to recreate the warmth of my babyhood.

Under the eye    But how long will I keep waiting for those

Under the nose    invisible hands that may never caress my cares away?

Chin    How long will I keep punishing myself

Collar bone    for the absence of those whose responsibility I am?

Under the arm    How long will I keep hurting, waiting for that magic fairy?

Top of the head    How long will I keep giving in to harmful impulses

EFT tapping round 3

Eyebrow    trying to recreate the illusion of a “full stomach”?

Side of the eye    How much more I will have to store inside my body

Under the eye    to recreate the coziness of the cuddles I miss so much?

Under the nose    When will I see that as a grown up

Chin    I am mighty capable of wiping my cares away,

Collar bone    even on an empty stomach?

Under the arm    What if I am starting to see it little by little?

Top of the head    Even if I did not have enough support growing up,

EFT tapping round 4

Eyebrow    or had too much of it for it to be limiting me now,

Side of the eye    I choose to be there for me, starting now.

Under the eye    No matter what happened to me in the past,

Under the nose    or what I fear may happen if things improve,

Chin    I choose to stop this self-sabotage now.

Collar bone    I choose to get off the track of self-destruction now.

Under the arm    I choose to be a great parent and friend to me now.

Top of the head    I promise to be the most dependable friend to me now.

EFT tapping round 5

Eyebrow    Once and for all, I choose to release

Side of the eye    all this hurt, all this resentment, all this fear

Under the eye    from every single cell of my body now.

Under the nose    I choose to stop treating my body

Chin    as a storehouse of emotions I can’t handle.

Collar bone    I am capable of dealing with upsetting truths

Under the arm    and painful emotions then and there.

Top of the head    From now on, I choose to work my way through

EFT tapping round 6

Eyebrow    upsetting feelings and let them wither away peacefully.

Side of the eye    I choose to respect my body for what it is, priceless.

Under the eye    I choose to release this nasty habit of punishing myself

Under the nose    by overindulging in what’s bad for me.

Chin    I choose to find healthy and satisfying ways

Collar bone    of rewarding myself too.

Under the arm    I am stronger than I give myself credit for.

Top of the head    Instead of running for cover whenever I panic,

EFT tapping round 7

Eyebrow    I will now choose to give myself a reality check.

Side of the eye    Starting now, I choose to unearth surprising,

Under the eye    new sources of strength from within.

Under the nose    I forgive myself for all the hurt I have caused my body.

Chin    In my ignorance, I found an easy victim in my body.

Collar bone    I didn’t know any better. Now I do.

Under the arm    I choose healing now.

Top of the head    I am capable, calm and confident. And so it is.